Wedding Traditions: Top Table

Are you in the midst of wedding planning or perhaps you’re a well-organised Maid of Honour doing the research for the Bride-to-be?

As we look forward to the beauty of Spring and Summer weddings here in Cheshire, we wanted to delve into the traditions and superstitions that have surrounded weddings for hundreds of years.

Our first topic – The Top Table

Wedding Traditions: Top Table

 

Shane Webber Photography

 

A familiar feature in most weddings, the long table at the head of the room, designed as a way for guests to see the wedding party enjoying themselves and vice versa.

Traditionally, the order of wedding guests goes Maid of Honour, Father of the Groom, Mother of the Bride, Groom, Bride, Father of the Bride, Mother of the Groom, Best Man.

And although it’s still a very common sight in British weddings, Brides and Grooms are thinking of ways to turn the tradition on its head!

So if you are looking for a few suggestions that break with tradition, here is our wedding top tips list:

  1. An increase in a more modern family set up means that a traditional top table isn’t the answer for many couples. Which is why a U-shape is proving more and more popular, especially with younger generations. Adapting the table to mix both friends and family is a great way to keep the tradition alive with a more relaxed vibe.
  2. ‘Sweetheart’ tables mean that all eyes are on you. Consisting of one table and two chairs, there’s no need to worry about a seating hierarchy and that the wedding focuses on the main attraction – the newly wedded couple!
  3. Like the idea of a sweetheart table but worried about feeling a little lonely up there? Ask your Maid of Honour and Best Man to join you for a less ostentatious version of the top table
  4. All this sound like too much hassle? Why not cut the top table completely from your seating plan! Many modern couples are finding that they enjoy being amongst their guests whether that be in a central table or along a large row table.

Whether your wedding is a fully traditional day or you are putting your own spin on your big day, we hope we’ve given you some food for thought!

Discover more inspiration and find out more about we can help you create the wedding of your dreams at our wedding open evening Tuesday 2nd April 5pm – 8pm.


@cardenpark

Keep up to date

As December dawns at Carden Park, the enchanting countdown to Christmas begins 🎄✨

Join us as we embrace the real countdown to Christmas as our hotel is adorned with wreaths, our spa turns into a winter sanctuary, and our restaurant is filled with all the culinary delights

But perhaps what truly makes December at Carden Park special is the opportunity to share moments of warmth and laughter with loved ones 🫶🏼

Who is feeling the festive magic?
Thinking of treating the family to a break away in 2024? 🤔

Until 4th December, you can use coupon code CP20 to get 20% OFF selected overnight stays - the perfect excuse to plan ahead 🙌

What to expect from your Carden Park stay:
🍃 Luxurious bedroom with breakfast in the morning
🍃 Leisure Club swimming pool
🍃 Children's play area
🍃 Delicious dining for all ages
🍃 Onsite activities; including zip line, archery & segways
🍃 Golf games at the Driving Range powered by Toptracer
🍃 Sculpture Garden
🍃 10% discount voucher for Cheshire Oaks Designer Outlet (available at reception) 
🍃 Plenty of family friendly local attractions; such as Chester Zoo, The Ice Cream Farm and BeWILDerwood

See link in bio

#familyholiday #luxuryhotel #travel
Embracing the final day of November with a serene winter morning at Carden Park ❄️

Crisp air, frost-kissed landscapes, and the promise of cosy festive moments ahead 

📸: shamirkp

#DecemberMornings #CardenParkBeauty
We're absolutely thrilled to have won Best Spa in the North West 2023 at the @goodspaguide awards 🏆

We feel unbelievably honoured to have been recognised as one of the best spas in the country and it wouldn't be possible without our incredible spa team!

#cardenpark #bestspa #northwest #awards #awardwinner #awardwinning #luxuryspa #uk
There's never been a better time to book your ultimate countryside retreat 🍃 

For a limited time, enjoy 20% off rates on selected packages for stays up until 30th April 2024... all you have to do is use coupon code CP20 when booking online 

Hurry, this incredible offer ends 4th December 2023, visit the link in bio

𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘦, 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘵 𝘊𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘯 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘬 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘭𝘶𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘮 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘣𝘦 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘬.𝘤𝘰.𝘶𝘬

#staycation #luxuryhotel #cheshire #uktravel #cardenpark #specialoffer
Fun is in the air 🦅

As part of our limited edition seasonal offers, we're offering an exhilarating experience on Vertigo - our high ropes course and zip line - for 2 adults and 2 children at only £100 🙌

Offer ends 4th December, link in bio

#zipline #aerialropes #highropes #adventure #travel #family

We’d love to hear from you

Stay in touch

and receive the latest news, events and much more.